I'm not the intended audience for this one, but it has a lot of good practices and insights for people relatively new to becoming better listeners.
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They/them. Lemon drop, bruxa, sweet pea, badass, queer, Philadelphian. Lifter of weight; Reader of books; Lover of cats; Knitter of sweaters. Philosopher by training; product manager by trade
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Anathema reviewed Listen Like You Mean It by Ximena Vengoechea
Anathema reviewed Homecoming by John Bradshaw
Dated, so take some things with a grain of salt.
4 stars
Recommended, with some caveats, by my therapist. Feels a little hokey, but in my third reading of this one in 7 years, I have come to see the value in the way that Bradshaw talks about and structures integration of a traumatic childhood.
Queer people, be aware: this was written in 1990, and published in 1992.
There is for sure some clinicalization of homosexuality that may not feel good. I recommend skipping past those references, but it may be too difficult for you to do so comfortably, and that's okay. <3
Anathema reviewed The Border Keeper by Kerstin Hall
Anathema reviewed The Longing for Less by Kyle Chayka
About, not (necessarily) For, Minimalists.
5 stars
Finally, a deeper read on the history of minimalism, its links to the worlds of art, music, philosophy, ethics, and politics. I enjoyed this deeply. It challenged me, asked me to stretch, and rewarded me for doing so.
Anathema reviewed The Lost Art of Doing Nothing by Maartje Willems
Anathema reviewed Big Friendship by Aminatou Sow
CN worthy, but informative and interesting
4 stars
Big content note for alcohol and drug references, near constant in the first quarter of the book. If that content is sensitive for you, I would avoid this one.
That said, tons of very interesting dialogue especially around interracial friendship involving a white person.
Anathema reviewed How to Do Nothing by Jenny Odell
If you want to read philosophy/anthropology that talks about federated social networks...
5 stars
Densely packed with insights and a critical reading of the philosophy of place and of work. Anti-capitalist and introspective. Often surprising in its approach and conclusions. An excellent piece about resistance.
Turned me on to Mastodon and other federated, decentralized and anti-corporate forms of social media, as well as bioregionalism